Sex Quote – The Tragedy of Sexual Intercourse Is the Perpetual Virginity of the Soul


Virginity of the soul in this context means the level of innocence within us, which strongly includes our taste and ability to crave or long after some things or substances which may not really be considered as socially okay. This is a sex quote from William B. Yeate. What does he mean by this? Let’s find out.

Actually, this is so deep and inspiring and for a clearer picture and better understanding of this sex quote, we will have to critically analyze it in two sides, the side which considers the situation before sexual intercourse and the side after having sex.

A person who never had sex in his or her Life is not just a virgin in sexual status but also in the soul. What this means is that, the person has no experience and no sense of adventure. This may not be entirely true and some virgins may have watched some pornography, gone through illicit materials, engaged in pervert chats or discussions with friends. Nevertheless, it is not as adventurous as tasting the “forbidden fruit”.

Now, this virgin gets set to experience it for the first time in his or her life and then goes into it with some level of uncertainty despite how well they have known it through the factors earlier mentioned. But once the forbidden fruit has been tasted or even eaten, our Human nature then comes into play which is-we want to eat and taste more of it. A lady has confessed that ever since she had her first sex at the age of 15, she never looked back. A guy who was a virgin and in a relationship for about 4 years experienced his first sex with his girl at the age of 22. Not up to 6 months after this, he broke up with her-why? “She is not really good in bed”-his reason. There are millions of people who are in similar situations, especially teenagers and young adults.

After having an intercourse, we want to have it again and we hoped and wish the next time should be better, more adventurous and pleasurable than the previous. We do not just stop on the basis of wishes and hopes but rather work towards ensuring the next would be better. All these actions bring down the level of innocence we possess within us and hence eat up the virginity of the soul. The more we crave or try to make the next better, the more we make the soul wild (for the married) or corrupt (for the singles). And no wonder, sexual intercourse in our present generation has been abused. People do not find satisfaction in having sex with the opposite gender anymore. They have gone far to have it with same gender and to some this is not even enough. They have craved for pleasure from animals-having sex with dogs and horses, all in the quest to find the zenith of pleasure and hence corrupting the soul.

Well, in order to clear all possible subjects of arguments, such an attribute affecting the soul is a tragedy to both the married and single. The main factor of any variable here should be the individuals. Well, a married man may be tired of the satisfaction he gets from his wife and begin sleeping with his next door neighbor’s wife to get the satisfaction he feels he has not enjoyed. His wife on the other hand can go for an animal. So, no one is exempted in this. But even as the soul gets more and more wild after every sexual intercourse, we should do our best not to make it a tragedy but rather channel it to better enjoy sex the way it ought to be enjoyed.


by Funom Makama

Sexual Self-Sufficiency Through Autofellatio and Autocunnilingus


Most people, especially in these trying economic times, are realizing the importance of living a self-sufficient life. This type of lifestyle allows one to live on their own, as they see fit, and take care of themselves in every conceivable fashion (by themselves). It’s a way for people to disconnect themselves from the tempestuous world we live in that seems to be filled with more lies, corruption, and greed every day.

The entire concept of being self-sufficient is another way of expressing/having Independence and Freedom.

When one gets properly self-sufficiently established, their lives are typically permeated by feelings of peace. One realizes that it is up to them, and only them, to be reliant on survival and creating an environment where they can rest happily, content, and safely. The greatest part is leaving the rest of the corruption, politics, and senseless garbage behind them.

I had a friend I went to high school with who went off to college. I spoke to him a few months later and he had something quite revealing to say. He stated that, in college, that he had to learn to take care of himself. He said that if he wanted to wear clean clothes, then he had to take the time out to wash them. If he didn’t wash them, then he only had dirty clothes to wear. If he wanted something to eat, he had to plan ahead and purchase food and then prepare to cook it if he wanted to eat. The next lesson he learned was that if he didn’t bother to clean the dishes after his last meal, that he had nothing clean to eat off of. If he didn’t pay the electric bill, then they would turn off his electricity…

It was an incredible awakening for him, as he had moved out of his family’s house to live on his own. He hadn’t realized how protected and cared for he was until he had to do it on his own. He realized that he had taken for granted all of the things that were provided to him by his parents. Now that he was on his own, with only himself to accept responsibility or blame for whatever occurred in his life, he was awakened by the smell of reality.

(I’ve often wondered if this isn’t one of the best lessons that universities, indirectly, really teach.)

Acquiring self-sufficiency takes on many methods and meanings. Some people want to have enough money that they can have the freedom to do what they want, whenever they want. This is surely a form of a sufficiency that offers comfort and freedom that most people desire. Just imagine winning the lottery and realizing that you don’t have to go to work tomorrow morning, if you don’t feel like it; and, if you so desire, you can walk into the office of your boss and quote the title of a song made famous by Johnny Paycheck. You know, the one where you tell your boss where to insert your job. If Country music isn’t your style, the Dead Kennedy’s did a more intensive cover of this song. Or if movies are your thing, the movie, of the same title, was released in 1981.

Sexuality can also become a form of self-sufficiency, too. The act of autofellatio is whereby a man can orally stimulate his own penis; where for women the similar act is called autocunnilingus. These abilities are simply extensions and creative forms of masturbation. However, with these “auto” techniques, one is able to explore and evoke pleasures that are hardly available with more conventional means of masturbation. This is what makes them special.

Learning these methods is certainly a way for people to become truly self-reliant in the sexual field. Allowing them to create a sexual independence or a sexual freedom, if they so desire. It’s one other tool for the toolbox of the individual who wants to realize autonomy.

Good luck.

Exploring unconventional methods of sexuality; methods that our ancestors enjoyed and impassioned themselves with, is one of my interests. Those men and women who are interested in autofellatio should read Yogafellatio. It is a book that helps guide men down this sexually exciting and interesting path.


by Kimi Kalfino

Colour and Sexuality


There is a lot of information around colours and the emotions they represent. Certain colours are associated with certain emotions for example red represents anger. But does favouring a certain colour have an effect on what you are attracted to? It is quite possible, as your sexuality is orientated around your emotions.

If we look at what each colour means, we can analyse the possibility of how that colour affects your sexual behaviour. White on its own is a representation of purity. In weddings the bride often wears white, as traditionally she is supposed to be a virgin and by wearing white she shows her purity and honesty. In some cultures it represents kindness, which is why within those cultures it’s worn at funerals.

In love, white stands for loyalty. White is technically not a colour, which is why it stands for purity, as it completes light. Because it can change into any colour, it has some meaning as a good omen for new beginnings. Sexually, people who favour white are conservative. Owing to the purity aspect, it could be said that people who are fond of white are shy to show affection in public and tend to dress under the covers. They would probably shower both before and after making love.

Red stands at the opposite of white. Red represents passion and heat. The colour stands for a variety of things in different cultures. In China it’s the colour of prosperity and joy, whereas in western societies it can represent anger and violence. Mars is a red planet and in many ancient cultures represented the God of War. Because of this long association with violence and aggression, red now represents danger.

In our own bodies, blood is red, which brings with it symbols of life and vitality. Sexually, red lovers tend to be wild and explore different aspects of lovemaking. Two people who love red would probably be highly adventurous.

Purple has achieved mythical status in the colour world. Owing to it being associated with spiritual fulfilment, it is said that people who favour this colour are sexually deprived. As a colour, purple is associated with peace of mind and royalty. It’s the colour of the magician’s cloak and indicates magic. Sexually, as mentioned, there is a myth for purple lovers. People who prefer purple are rumoured to be non-fuss types and have a very businesslike approach to bedroom antics.

Black is generally associated with death, evil, and the opposite of white. However, this isn’t always necessarily so. In the Native American culture, they thought black was a good colour as it was the colour of the soil, which gives life. There is also a sense of mystery to the colour, which gives hope to potential and possibility.

Police psychologists have shown that most sex offender’s favourite colour is black. However, this might not always be the case, as described above, there can be possibilities for other attributes with black and sexual behaviours.

Green is the colour of healing, fertility and life. It is a general good-feeling colour and has links to harmony and safety. There is a lot of balance and change with the colour. Sexually, green people have a fresh and innocent approach to lovemaking. Emphasis is more on being gentle, faithful and reliable than on passion (red being the opposite colour of green).

Pink is generally described with love, beauty and romance. Looking at the actual colour, it is very quiet, although it is the combination of two very strong colours, red and white. There is a general feeling of tenderness, self-worth and acceptance with pink. Sexually, the colour is a bit of a tease. For women, pink is associated with femininity and might reveal that side for them.

Orange brings out the more red aspects within in. It is the colour for power, although it is also considered as one of the healing colours. Enthusiasm and creativity come out of orange, as well as thoughtfulness and sincerity. There is a lot of warmth to it. As a colour, it’s a type of toned-down red when it comes to meanings.

Sexually, it is said that orange lovers tend toward sexual fantasies. They also prefer a fair amount of foreplay, which is where the thoughtfulness comes in. Most blue things, such as the sky, the ocean, all have a calming effect of people. Due to it bringing a sense of relaxation with it, people generally find their most inspirational moments while looking at blue. Sincerity and spirituality are also part of the colour. Blue is also linked to friendship and conversation.

Sexually, blue brings out consideration and sensitivity within in lovers. They are concerned with their partner’s needs and wants, which also results in them being loyal and faithful in the long term.

Yellow is bright, sunny and the most cheerful of all colours. Emotionally, there are creativity and intellectual properties to the colour, which is probably why post-its and notepads are yellow. Yellow lovers are adaptable to their partners. They would rather be passive than initiate sexual behaviour.

Whether there is any truth behind the meanings of colours is up to each person’s intuition. However, it would explain a fair amount with regard to characteristics and emotions when looking at a specific shade. Favouring a type of colour could reflect your character in the bedroom. It might not be 100% true for all, but might explain why you like certain things certain ways.


by Celeste Yates